Originally Posted by
krhea75 
THanks all, I know that you are right. I don't intend on going to get him, but if he gets discharged they will call and ask me to come get him. I feel better now after spending time with bf and stepping back a bit. He has to deal with this and I agree that this is one of those life lessons he will have to face sooner or later. Thanks for the advice and listening to me vent....hopefully tomorrow will be better.
krhea
I think that was the right think. He really needs to deal w/the consequences. Nothing more than we want to do than run to Mom to fix our mistakes, lol.
We sure do like to make them, but we don't like to fix them.
Sharing something confidential from group IS a big deal, and he needs to deal w/it. Better he deal w/it in rehab & learn a lesson than out on the street.
Counselors are trained in how to deal w/that type of stuff anyway, they will help all of them work through their 'hate' and all those trust feelings..
It's a good thing for them to be going through this stuff in rehab...
The more they are forced to deal w/feelings, issues, etc. the better it is.
I know him crying is hard for you, but it's the best thing for him...
(((...)))