rahsue, My husband has commented that I really seem to have my sh*t together as far as our AD goes. In the past I was the big enabler, now he is the one that comes up with ideas for helping her and I have to tell him Woah, slow down buster, that won't work. I agree that these boards have made such a difference in my life. Seeing that others have and are going through the same thing we are makes it easier and this is one experience in life where I WILL listen to other's advice
Hugs, Marle