Thanks all, Satit. I've been working on the codie stuff once a week with therapy. Anvil, same here about the paydays. She was swinging back and forth so much, and as all said here, as much as I let her, one day saying she wants help, next saying she doesn't blah blah blah, it all coming down to trying to blame me and telling me all the issues with being hungry quack quack quack. I finally got tired enough this week, tried to be decent about things....but you can only be decent to someone when they want the same thing. I'm surely done now. I'm filling my days. Next week I start picking my son up every morning 6:30 Am and start excerising with him, as well as picking him after work to sit in the library and do his homework with him. I've got my work cut out for me....lots to do. Outside of the couple instances of major drama, feels good to have a calm, mostly stress free day.
Thanks all for you words