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Jenna,

This was the only thing I could find that even remotely addresses your question. It talks about what a healthy relationship looks like, but deals more with an already established relationship, not what it looks like in the beginning. It might be useful down the road though, or as a check-list as things begin to progress....

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...tionships.html

I admire your desire to learn what 'it' looks like from the beginning....that's something I certainly have 'no experience' with, LOL!!