Welcome. My daughter is soon to be 21 and she is also an Oxy, heroin addict. She lives with her 37 year old crack addicted boyfriend who is only too happy to keep her supplied with drugs. About a year and a half ago she went to rehab. Came home after 5 days. Relapsed two weeks later and since then has had a 3 month clean stint. She says she wants help but won't call. I have given her addiction back to her, have not done anything for her since June. I pray for her everyday and give her to God. I am sorry that you are going through this with your daughter, but you sound like you know that you can't control what she does. That is a very good place to start. Hugs, Marle