sending prayers your way, and a special prayer for mom and her little daughter.
just to encourage you, i delivered 6 premies and i had one premie grandbaby and they are all doing just fine. i had two that were right at 23 wks, now 16 weight 2'+ and 29 weight 1'+ yrso. i know how scary that can be but i think now, a lot of them do fairly well.