[COLOR="Purple"]I guess being an EX is a hard spot to be in.You sound like a good man.And you do have children that keeps you forever connected..
My parent divorced when I was an infant--both remarried by the time I was 4(to the right people) No matter what they always got along-I was in the 3rd grade before I realized everyone didn't have 4 parents and 6 grandparents hah
a--my mother and father loved each other very much--right until the end of their lives--they just couldn't be married..I am proud now as an adult that they handles all those holidays and everything so well.....No alcohol was involved so for you it is differ
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You do have a responcibility to the children wether she is a good mother or not--unless she has cut those ties?If she has then walk away--I did with my son when he was almost 2-he is now 27...doesn't know his father--only because his father didnt want to know him--he walke
d awy. BT I NEVER EVER said anything bad to him about his father-nor did the family at my request.I kept it simple--''your dad is sick and can't take care of us'' I can't write here what I really wanted to say haha--but to a child--a mother is a mother a father is a father--if they see their parents in a bad light--they come to believe-they must be bad too-after all their mom r dad is,,,[/COLO
Please stay strong--you have a right to know how she is doing-and to call and check---if there is another man now--let him stay with her and make her choices.R]