I warned you I was crazy!! lolI am sure I have enabled my son for years--but now I understand more about it things are better...he is still sober-and doing well.
what happens between a husband and wife is private no doubtt about it--but I may be wrong I thought there was the question of involving the mother?? If you invite her into the issue--you just gotta know she is gonna act like a mother bear--unless she knows better---
on the calling of names? it doesn't matter they are all innocent--we are all here for each other--I really am trying to fit in--