Originally Posted by
guyinNC 
What is my place in all this????
I am concerned about her. But I am the X husband. Do I call to see how she and do I talk to her parents on a daily basis?
Do I just sit back and wait for news. Lets face it.....she never called me or asked for my help. Never called me to see how I was or the kids. She left me and never looked back.
I feel my "codependency" creeping back in!!!
What a nightmare!
First: ((guy)) hugs and prayers going out to you,your kids,your ex and her family...glad she seems to be making some progress (?)
My exAH just had another back surgery Friday...I wonder about these things,too. Glad you were able to at least talk to your ex. How is your relationship with her parents? It is good for you to have some knowledge for the sake of the kids;I guess your relationship with your former inlaws and the age of your kids,etc.,etc. would all be factors.