Turn them in. An episode of Intervention was about the option of either going to jail or going to treatment. The daughter went to treatment, but relapsed, so guess what? She went to jail. You can always go through the motions in rehab. My AH did that. Jail is a different story. Jail is for punishment. Rehab may FEEL like punishment for the first couple of weeks, but the harsh reality is you are putting off th enevitable by not turning them in. Bring the possible rockbottom to her.