Do it without regret!
Hello!
I'm new to this forum, but not to addiction and the insanity of it all. IMHO, whatever you choose to do, do it without regret. Set your boundary and make a decision that you will own no matter what opinions come your way.
Often, we allow loved ones to treat us horribly and we end up being volunteers rather than victims......it's a self-esteem issue I believe. When I set my boundaries, I ask if I would permit anyone to treat me this way and, if the answer is no, then I respond as if the offender was the stranger that she is anyway.
Take care,
Choosey