Hi Patch. sorry you are going through all of this. I am thankful my X never Fatehred any children I know of. He did actually Father one but he made sure GF aborted it.
I am angry but as time goes on I cannot stay on that anger "high" and it fades into sadness. The sadness is differnt tho.. it is not sadness for him (he can go **** himself) but for me and for losing what I thought was the greatest thing I had ever had.. a relationship with this guy and shared interests. A future where both people are looking in the same direction.. I morn that IDEA. I would not even do that but his drug use came out as he was moving out so I was truly blind sided. I would never have allowed him near me if I had known that.
If I had known that he was an active drug addict, I would have tossed his sorry butt out of my life at the get go.