Welcome IO STorm!
Angel Girl...I look forward to hearing more as you feel better and have more time to write.
IO Storm...yes...the Depakote and Trazodone will most definetly make you VERY fatigued...especially the Trazodone depending on the dosage. In my case, I believe the Seroquel had the same affect, but through a secondary cause -- I believe it made me crave an enormous excess of sugar...which in turn made me fall sleepy much like that of a diabetic.
Seems like 3 strong head meds to be on all at once? Do you feel confident in your psychiatrist? Have you mentioned the tiredness to him/her?