I just have to add this for a laugh. My best friend was married to an alcoholic and divorced him. I can't seem to let my boyfriend go. She is friends with my guy, in fact, introduced us, but she always says my guy is just like her x-husband. I know what she means but my retort is always the same "No he's not, he doesn't stink and he has all his teeth!!!" .......... Shuts her up every time!