Dolorosa, Just what I feel, I have friends that are recoverying A's. They are fantastic people, perhaps they were fantastic people before they ever drank?? I am thinking of 2 males and 2 females. They really worked their programs. One can quote the AA Big Book and tell us pg and chp. then can tie things together also.
Three were divorced, but the one female was married, married gal seemed to have an excellent marriage.
Perhaps she was a light weight A? The one that can quote the book was a horrid person drunk. Just my 2 cents