Of course, we codies tend to be similar as well ....
Yup, Prodigal, when I first opened this thread, I was going to say just that. We all follow an amazingly similar path as well. In fact, it's just downright unbelievable how much we are alike too. I'm not necessarily referring as much to the "codie" thing as I am to the fact that when we wake up one day and realize we are in the mess of alcoholism, we all seem to start reacting the same way. I see new members posting "but he's so great when he's not drinking," or "maybe he's just a problem drinker," and I can hear my first post clear as a bell.