His additiction is killing me
My name is Mary, I am a recovering alcoholic looking for help. Many have told me the place to go is al=anon, i'lltry this first.
My husband got a DUI 4/07. When I went to pick him up at the state police barracks I found he had another woman on his motorcycle when he dropped it.
Now that he has lost his licence when he goes to the bar he does not come home at night opting to stay at a friends house behind his favorite haunt.
I know I can't get him get sober or change anything else about him for that matter but his behavior is killing me inside. His attitude is he just does not care about anything.
I know all about setting boundries etc.... I think its time to let go but I don't know how! Any suggestions?