FD, there is beauty in the Bible too. When I'm tempted to judge people I think about Jesus chillin with whores and moneylenders and tax collectors. This was a dude who knew about the value of what's inside a person.
Like alanon, you can take what you like and leave the rest. Or take none. It's just not nice to tell people that they're morons for following an ancient religion and it's traditions. When women are using religion to subjugate themselves, as so often happens, I find that making them feel like dopes doesn't help them break free of their bonds
