I don't talk about this much, but have been thinking I may find some relief if I search out some info on and admit to it really bothering me, The two babies I lost to miscarriage-everyone says I shouldn't feel bad about it, it was God's doing for whatever reason, etc, but I always have this vague sense that they are missing, like for instance when getting ready to send the kids to school and they're out the door, I sense two kids that are missing, and sometimes I panic a little, and then the grief sets in but I have been told so often it is not a big deal I feel guilty for grieving them. Do you know of a good website that deals with this? Am I overeacting or just not fully grieving through the whole process because I feel guilty for feeling guilty? Sorry if I have confused you but I am trying to get all this stuff out sooner than later now that I have found this site. Thanks for listening MG and I hope you are doing okay today.
Hugz,
Tammie