Geez, and another thing.......mother-in-laws. I liked mine, she was nice if not a little over-involved with us. But if he had one opinion, and I had another, he would call her to get her to settle the difference of opinion. As if I am supposed to say, "ohhhhhh, well, if your mom likes this, then gee, I guess I should too."
I guess my point is that, I can relate, and there is a better way to live. I've making some stupid choices on my own, but at least I know they are mine.