chitown, I aploigize for being harsh, I forgot about the realities of peer pressure and fitting in, even in "grown-up" situations. I, thank god, do not have an alcohol problem, or is alcohol a trigger for my drug use, but it can be for somebody off drugs, replacing one with another, or lowering inhibitions to someone who can't afford to. My new friends in NA drink coffee and are fun and nice people to be around.