I Agree!
You know, it does seem as if when you're in chaos, there is plenty of chaos for you to share in. And when you try to get yourself together, there's even more chaos!
This toxic person (guy #2) is just sitting at home miserable, and waited for the opportune moment to press my buttons! And suck me into his misery, but that's why I'm so glad I had this forum to talk to.
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