because it's not like a magic wand, and poof, you're cured.
If you ever run across a magic wand that does that, I know many of us here would be willing to donate a kidney to be zapped with it!
This board helps to remind me of the many things that need to stay front and center in my head to keep me functioning in a happy place and prevent me from getting sucked into the world of dysfunction - be it with my parents or with other people around me.