Last June I rec'd a nasty letter from my MIL blaming the kids and I for my XAH's problem...when she knew before we were married 22 years ago that he was an alcoholic...go figure...her little presh, presh walks on water. I wonder what they think now? His new wife - you know the hooch he cheated on me with - has 3 dui's behind her !!! I guess he needed a drinking buddy. One thats good in bed. So what does my MIL think now? Who knows. Who cares. I told her he is her problem now. Not ours. Enjoy.