hello, and welcome! congrats on your 40 days of recovery. my daughter completed a an inpatient program similiar to yours as far as philosophy and staff background. she also had a wonderful experience, and has passed 100 days of clean and sober. how wonderful of you to give your wife such respect and thanks, that shows such recovery. you doing 90 meetings in 90 days? is your wife in alanon? keep making progress, and enjoy your new life - together. blessings, k