Welcome to SR Ultra...
You have come to the right place for support. You have a plus going for you with your wife in recovery also. You two can be a team. Thats GREAT...
Stick around, read and post often. Check out the Substance Abuse forum. Many good guys and gals over there who you can relate closely with...
Both of you stay Strong and Positive...
One day at a time.
Steve
PS...Congratulations on your 40 days and 40 nights!!!