O.K. this is gonna sound weird but,......Fran Drescher. She had men break into her house and rape her in front of her husband and house guests. She still got on with her life. She tried really hard to stay with her husband but I think they finally split I'm sorry to say. Anyway, cant even imagine going on in life and not being hateful and angry at the men who hurt her so badly. I don't think they ever caught them either. I heard her talk about her story and was so amazed at her grace and inner beauty of getting over this horrific abuse. She was truly an inspiration to me.