Old 01-04-2007, 07:04 PM
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indoldrums
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Originally Posted by elizabeth1979 View Post
Sorry if Im repeating but Im short on time at the mo...



What someone else is thinking, is none fo my business. I go to al-anon to help myself. Al-anon is for people who are affected by soeone elses drinking. If you live with him, know him, are related to him, or give a rats behind about him, you are likely being affected by his drinking.

I did it, do it, and will continue to do it, for me not anyone else.




If hes anything like the alcoholics I know, he wont come away from that thinking he has a problem with his drinking, he will think you have a problem with his drinking....and dont you? Al-anon can help with that

Again...I know that. While I HOPE he will see it differently, I pretty much KNOW that his reaction will be that I'm so paranoid that I need to go to some group therapy garbage.
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