Originally Posted by
elizabeth1979 Sorry if Im repeating but Im short on time at the mo...
What someone else is thinking, is none fo my business. I go to al-anon to help myself. Al-anon is for people who are affected by soeone elses drinking. If you live with him, know him, are related to him, or give a rats behind about him, you are likely being affected by his drinking.
I did it, do it, and will continue to do it, for me not anyone else.
If hes anything like the alcoholics I know, he wont come away from that thinking
he has a problem with his drinking, he will think
you have a problem with his drinking....and dont you? Al-anon can help with that
Again...I know that. While I HOPE he will see it differently, I pretty much KNOW that his reaction will be that I'm so paranoid that I need to go to some group therapy garbage.