ya know, i'd been saying that i was going to try to make eye contact with the male species, but i just can't do it.....and then here was this opportunity for me to do so....in the form of a familiar, good person, of which there were no mutual expectations.
So cool. We get what we need when we need it. One of my goals lately has been to shift my focus enough to recognize it when it happens!
Glad you had a good time and felt so good, jeri. You deserve it.