are you wrong?Only you can decide for yourself.
I had a similar situation years ago,,in hub wanting me to drive him to work.we had 2 small kids then.I told him that i would drive him,for 3 days,but after that im not.I felt bad for my kids,waking them up so early,and getting them ready to go to the car.I did what i had said.,i would do,.After the 3 days,he wanted me to continue to drive him to work,but i stuck to my guns,on this,and didnt drive him.He had 3 days to find other ways of getting to work.I learn in al-anon,whats my stuff to own and whats not my stuff.His getting to work is not my stuff to own.He evenually found other ways of getting to work.This is how it worked out for us,personally.