And I agree it is wrong to serve people who are loaded. But all I could do is water down. If I refused someone, my boss would hear of it, and that person had better have been pretty loaded. Its sad and it will continue even though I am not doing it any more. Now it has come around to me too. My husband still goes to the bars, and they still serve him. I'm sure he gets plenty of attention and free drinks too. He's good looking and friendly, and they flirt with him and knock me because I refuse to go out any more.