I think you may be referring to what I posted and I meant it. I don't buy into, "it was my job". I'm a nurse and I live by my core beliefs, I do not participate in abortions. I did't always live by my core convictions. I do now. I don't even want to know how much of my paycheck went over the bar to tip a captive audience, a person who knew more about my husband than I did. someone who had the gall to serve my husband until he couldn't stand up but found plenty of energy to wake the house and beat me bloody. I left him to his bartender who poured propellant into my husband, pumped him full of advice and sent him home sideways, slurring and she to thought it was some kind of favor to drive him home in the wee hours of the morning. Bartenders should serve drinks and mind their own business, they should cut people off. I don't care what anyone does to earn a living and I appreciate anyone who stops to realize how their hand and their mouth contributes to the heartache of a household.