(((lori)))
I don't think you did a thing wrong - it was your job. Did you also serve drinks to those who weren't addicted? I never gave any of this thought until the negatives of living with alcoholism hit home HARD. Even while the soft ones were happening, I kept stocking the liquor cabinet and pouring the drinks. Alcohol consumption is such a part of society - most people are not addicts. I think it's one of the reasons I hung in there so long thinking that if I just did the right thing, AH would stop drinking.
None of it's easy and we all do the best we can.