Welcome to SR!
It's wonderful to see you are choosing to be sober
Congratulations!
I had the same situation plus I worked in bars/restaurants.
I did quit that for office work
When I began AA I lived in Washington D.C.
I found a group that was mostly singles
and we had a blast getting /staying sober together.
During my 3 years in that group...we went for coffee
after a meeting.. lunched..attended AA dances..rented a
car for out of town meetings..hiked..went to the theater..
movies were a weekend happening.
I think of that time as "AA dating"
meaning we did things together..no pairing off.
And we started Step work..AA service work..called each
other when we hit a snag..
We stayed sober!!
I suggest you find a Friday and/or Saturday night group
and check it out.