It's time to find yourself. To find the answers as to why you pick this kind of man, why you accept the unacceptable, and why you are so unsure of making your own decisions.
It has been in rediscovering myself and what it is that I want (and don't want) in my life that have been the most constructive in putting my life back together - one day at a time.
If the life and relationships that you have been having is not the life that you wish to have - you have the choices and the ability to change it. It's up to you. And the changing begins with you.