Originally Posted by Mani
In the past he would promise me he'll change and so on. But not this time.
Words without actions are meaningless.
Originally Posted by
Mani81 
I failed once again. I'm back to square one...
My experience has been that until I understood the issues that were driving my choices, I kept on repeating the same mistake over and over. However, each time I repeated it, I was one step closer to understanding what my motivation was. While I was going through it, yes, I too felt like a failure. Looking back, no, I wasn't a failure....I was 'learning' about the most important person in the world....'me'!
Originally Posted by
Mani81 I had spy him in the past when he went out drinking with his mate to see if he left with another woman. I hate the person i have become.
I've done that. I'm not saying it's healthy, but it's not uncommon in situations like this.
Remember, the only person you can change is yourself.