Hi and welcome fedup. There will be other posters with lots of information I am sure. My first gut instinct is to see an attorney. I know in my state community property laws the mom and her kids can't be thrown out of their house. I am sure that the law may side with you as they do with mom's in my state. Check that out first is my suggestion. Also, do you attend any type of support group like al-anon and your children? Even just counselling to get through troubling times is good to have. Best Wishes. Keep coming back. Irsh