even when they have not been drinking the thinking is still blurred and the blame game and irrational mentation persists.
once when told out daughter is the only reason she stays with me i replied with a happy face; "am i really that bad"? she answered "not really" she was expecting my response to be as nasty as her statement. it seems they like to get you going with anger.
another response i have tried with some luck is "alcohol is your enemy, not me" that can stop her in her tracks.
# looking for someone to blame, look in the mirror"
have a nice weekend