Denny57, that article is so true and I think I've even read it before! But I can tell you right now that 1. my husband would not even read it, and 2. if he did he wouldn't believe it! He is very deep-seated in his defensiveness about his drinking and his excuses to drink. When he sleeps I can see he is not breathing right - sometimes he goes for several seconds without being able to take a breath. I told him about it, he ignores me!