what is click? sounds interesting. yeah in recovery ive had several moments in which i stated 'i wish time would just stand still.' i also had those times in the glory days of my using (you know, those times i spent years unsucessfully chasing) but the difference is dramatic. i CAN NEVER get back those glory days of using, when i was in highschool or college and had no responsibility whatsoever. i can continue on with my sober moments in which i wish time would stand still though. so my best option is to follow the realistic one.