yup FD, I hear ya.....and you know what mattes it hurt more....?
My license tag is a personalized tag reflecting, what I thought I was at one time, a respectable member of my recovery program. it is:
"STEP GRL"
As in, I am a girl who lives the steps...LOL
Not tonight, I wasnt.
Luckily, the cousin wouldnt know what a step was if he tripped over one.