Welcome, Housework....
Both of my children were alcoholics and I thank God they found recovery in AA at young ages. They're adults now and I couldn't be more blessed and grateful than I am now.
My heart goes out to you. I hope you will attend Al-Anon meetings as soon as you can. It saved my sanity. It took awhile for me to practice "tough love", but my kids tell me that it saved their lives!
Please keep coming back to share, get to meetings and read as much of the free literature as you possibly can. Hopefully, your son will attend AA meetings on a regular basis.
Hang in there and my prayers are with you.
Hugs,
Luv2All