one time i had to buy my xah a birthday card after a particularly nasty evening the night before. i searched and searched, but all the cards were way too nice for him. so i came home and made one out of index cards. when i gave it to him, he screamed....YOU WOULDN'T EVEN BUY ME A BIRTHDAY CARD??????
i said....well, i tried, but i couldn't find one that said "F### YOU!!!"
then, i left for the night. cuz i was smarter than to stay.
jeri