You know how it works, Found. Some people are head-shakers, but you and I are powerless over what goes on inside their heads. If you don't mind me offering my opinion - you know in yourself if you make enough meetings to keep you well. If you do, they can shake all they want, they don't have to live with your head. If you don't make enough meetings, and you need a bit of help getting there and back, just tell people, and they'll find a way.