Originally Posted by queenteree
I guess I just really want him to suffer like he's made me suffer. I'm not passed that yet since I'm still living with him and learning the tools. I'm sure I'll feel different once I remove myself from the situation. I'm trying to focus on me, but it's hard when you live with an A, as you all well know.
I don't agree, though I did leave my marriage. I have many friends who stay, as do many here. I started changing my thinking a year before I told AH to not come back.
I'm sure I'll feel different once I remove myself from the situation.
This is similar to an alcoholic geographic - that things will be better "over there." Change comes from within.
Good luck and take care of yourself.