I just had an argument with my Aunt while she was moving out about me giving her the coffee maker.
I had told her last week that she could have it as my husband and I don't drink coffee. She called me a liar and actually began an argument with me about it. I was a little flabbergasted with the whole idea of how she will argue over the littlest things, but will tell me what I want to hear when I speak to her about her drinking.
I ended up telling her she could take it and walking away from her as I am not having an argument with her about a conversation over a coffee maker, for crying out loud.
I have found with my situation that saying I disagree and walking away helped a whole lot, but then she wasn't my spouse either.