Chicago, thanks very much for your post. I will PM you if I need you, thanks for being there
I'm going to call my Dr. tomorrow about the anti-depressants, I'll let you all know how that goes, I also see my therapist tomorrow (weekly).
Liss, thanks sweetie! We set a date, September 7th, 2008. Gives us plenty of time to save up money, we are each still living with our parents.