kermit.....hon, it will get better. i know how you feel. the hurt is indescribable.
hopelessness.
it's like a death....we must mourn it.
a blast from my past......at a meeting one night, i was cryin all over the place hout how much i was hurting.....said i would almost feel better if he were dead, cause then i would know where he was. my fellow al-anonian said.......well, lets just go get him, kill him, and bury him so YOU will feel better, honey!!!!
that was an eye opener for me. so i started concentrating on me.