sometimes i find that what we have in common is our program, so thats the best place for me to meet my recovery friends. sometimes i dare to ask a member out for coffee and a chat and they say yes! sometimes ive even gone out to see live music with other alanoners. its just that im more collectively aware with recovery people. your post made me think of how its like that for me in work and hobby groups moreso than my recovery actually, just meet and greet. time with recovery people is so intense that it makes time with others seem more superficial but it changes from time to time. and when i think of church, i barely know or really want to know those people much deeper because they dont have a program or a program way of communicating, humbly, openly, honestly and respectfully. but this isnt always.
