100 people tell me I'm nice and warmhearted - 3 people (true) tell me I have a hard heart and I believe them. What's that about? I'm finding out.
And I will focus on those 3....who don't fit for me- and not focus on the 97 out there that
are worth my trust and friendship! I try to move ahead in small steps and wait to see how others respond to me, as things progress I will then grant my trust and not before. The only reason most people have hurt me is because I gave them my permission to do so. The good thing about pain is that the sore spots that ache and remind us to not 'go there' again.